AM I ASCENDING OR JUST HORNY?
- Shona Glover

- 7 days ago
- 4 min read
Have you ever become aroused while meditating… or simply aroused in general? Most people can probably answer yes to at least one of those questions. But why does this happen? And why do we even have orgasms?
The orgasm is, without doubt, a popular form of energy. The tingling waves, the magnetic pull, the rush of endorphins, the cosmic vibration that ripples through the whole body. Who wouldn’t want to feel that all the time?
If you imagine the Tree of Life, your existence in this moment is like a seed that fell from the original tree into the earth, sprouting into a whole new tree. When we are born, we come through the root of that tree, and as we grow into our own tree of life, we are disconnected from the original structure and its blueprint. A new being is formed. We are given new DNA, a new molecular structure, new tissue, fascia, bones, density.
But one thing remains, we still hold part of the original seed, the soul remembrance. We retain a connection to the tree that gave us life. That fragment of knowledge is still alive within us.
It’s no coincidence that this energy rises from the lower chakras. The root anchors our life force, and just above it the sacral chakra governs our sensuality and erogenous zones. The Root is the birthplace of our universal life force. It is where the serpent rests, where Kundalini energy sleeps. When we experience pleasure, we stir that energy, activating a sensual current that begins to move. This is the essence of Kundalini. Why else would a Kundalini activation often look like a group of people lying on the floor appearing to have full-body orgasms? It is the same energy, explored and allowed to unfold. We either use it to satisfy sexual desire, or we harness it for something greater.
So why do we feel compelled to release this energy with others?
Like a moth to a flame, we are drawn to what feels good. But because we arrive here in a state of forgetting, this pull becomes a distraction, part of the matrix that loops us into believing the pleasure itself is the goal. Enter the story of Adam and Eve, physical attraction. It keeps us looking outside ourselves for satisfaction, believing we need something or someone else to activate that pleasure.
So what should we do with this energy instead?
Directing this energy into our purpose and potential is the real work. When arousal arises, we tend to want more and more, chasing the climax. But imagine sitting with that energy instead. Imagine allowing it to move through you. Down your legs, up your torso, through your chest, out your arms, up your neck, into your head. Then imagine expanding it outward, past your physical body, projecting it from your third eye into your energy field.
The orgasm is only a fraction of what is possible when we embody our full luminous body. Imagine feeling like an ongoing, radiant pulse of pleasure every day. This craving we feel for orgasm is not only distraction, but also an instinctive pull toward this deeper light. When we draw the energy up from the root and expand it outward, without sexualizing it, the nervous system begins to rewire itself. We open into higher consciousness and broader bands of dimensional frequency.
As we move this energy upward and outward, it becomes expansive. It switches on our energy centers. It connects across all access points, the chakras, the auric field. This reduces the dependency on others to trigger or release it.
What about procreation?
However you are conceived, you inherit the stored energy of both your biological mother and father. Ancestral patterns become part of your energetic makeup. The mother holds this energy for nine months and beyond, offering nutrients and resources. But the mother also needs grounding and stability, returning to herself so she can continue to provide, just as the Earth does. As we grow, learning to become sovereign within ourselves is essential for healthy development its important for the child to step out and become their own person.
So, should we stop having sex in order to reach higher states of consciousness?
That is entirely up to you. We are human, and our human experience includes pleasure. But it’s important to understand that sexual energy is often distorted, creating confusion about its true purpose.
I recommend experimenting with the energy before releasing it every time. Once it’s released, the circuit breaks. This is why frequent sex, whether casual or with a consistent partner, disperses your energy into someone else’s field and vice versa. Sex is sacred because you are merging your life force with another. You should know how to protect it, how to reclaim it afterward, and how to maintain your own energetic blueprint.
And ultimately, ask yourself, Do you want a brief wave of pleasure? Or do you want access to a deeper, continuous state of inner bliss?


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